I'm a little frustrated. I have been looking for some family members for a long time. To only get the same result each time. A dead end. So, let me tell you my situation in hopes some of you might have an idea on what to do. I'm stumped.
My biological father left me and my mother before I was even a year old. I never met him. All I know is that his last name was Baker. I was in touch with my biological grandparents however. I learned that they where German. I also learned that I have three half brothers. James Ray, and two others. I only met them once. James Ray passed away when I was 11yrs old. The other two as far as I know are still around. They should be around the same age or just a little older then me. I'm 35yrs old now.
In my past research I have been looking for them under the name of Baker and came up with nothing. Just this past month I found out from my mother that the Two boys had lived with their biological mother and she remarried. The husband in that marriage adopted the two boys. Thus changing their last names. I have tried getting a hold of my biological father to see if he could be any help as I do not know their new last names, but I have not been able to find him.
So does anyone have any ideas on where I should even start? I'm still torn on the fact if I should even try to find them anymore, after all we are older and who wants to add more drama into someone's life. Then again we are brothers and I just want to make sure they are ok. I think about them everyday, as If I have known them for ever.
My biological father left me and my mother before I was even a year old. I never met him. All I know is that his last name was Baker. I was in touch with my biological grandparents however. I learned that they where German. I also learned that I have three half brothers. James Ray, and two others. I only met them once. James Ray passed away when I was 11yrs old. The other two as far as I know are still around. They should be around the same age or just a little older then me. I'm 35yrs old now.
In my past research I have been looking for them under the name of Baker and came up with nothing. Just this past month I found out from my mother that the Two boys had lived with their biological mother and she remarried. The husband in that marriage adopted the two boys. Thus changing their last names. I have tried getting a hold of my biological father to see if he could be any help as I do not know their new last names, but I have not been able to find him.
So does anyone have any ideas on where I should even start? I'm still torn on the fact if I should even try to find them anymore, after all we are older and who wants to add more drama into someone's life. Then again we are brothers and I just want to make sure they are ok. I think about them everyday, as If I have known them for ever.
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