The new Ancestry Birth Registration has thrown up a very large cat into my life. I have been hunting for details of a cousin for a long time, all due to some kind of family rift. My Uncle Jim (mum’s brother) seems to have married, (I had very few details as Nan did not seem to approve and I believe did not attend the wedding).
I have spent years tracing Jim – he died in the war – his wife Kate remarried, I managed to get into contact with her new husband Charles. Sadly Kate passed away before she was able to contact me (about a month after I wrote to Charles), although he did advise me there was a child of Kate’s marriage to my Uncle. He passed along the name of my cousin, his wife’s name and their address and said he would love to hear from me.
At the time Charles and I had some discussion on the death of Jim – Charles was under the impression Jim was lost from a ship that sunk in the Bay of Biscay (sometime in 1943 I think). I checked on the CWGC and it was confirmed that he was killed in Dec 1942 at buried in Bone, Algeria – I have a photo of his grave from my grandparents.
So I sent everything I had to my cousin – and heard – nothing. I gave him the option of letting me know he wasn’t interested in hearing, sae etc. Couple of years later I tried again, copies of photos, drawing of my mother by his father – same options – nothing.
Have just done a search of the new Ancestry Registry and – for the first time – there is the birth of my cousin.
Small problem – his birth is registered in the Sep qtr in 1944. Uncle Jim died in Dec 1942.
Do I take it that this was an over length pregnancy, or would it possibly be the reason why I have never heard from him??
My “cousin” had married so surely he would have needed his birth certificate and would have known who his father was – if Jim wasn’t his father why didn’t Charles say so?
Any bright ideas, thoughts etc (apart from sending for the birth certificate which I am thinking of doing) would be appreciated!
(Names have been changed to protect the living although only one is still alive)
I have spent years tracing Jim – he died in the war – his wife Kate remarried, I managed to get into contact with her new husband Charles. Sadly Kate passed away before she was able to contact me (about a month after I wrote to Charles), although he did advise me there was a child of Kate’s marriage to my Uncle. He passed along the name of my cousin, his wife’s name and their address and said he would love to hear from me.
At the time Charles and I had some discussion on the death of Jim – Charles was under the impression Jim was lost from a ship that sunk in the Bay of Biscay (sometime in 1943 I think). I checked on the CWGC and it was confirmed that he was killed in Dec 1942 at buried in Bone, Algeria – I have a photo of his grave from my grandparents.
So I sent everything I had to my cousin – and heard – nothing. I gave him the option of letting me know he wasn’t interested in hearing, sae etc. Couple of years later I tried again, copies of photos, drawing of my mother by his father – same options – nothing.
Have just done a search of the new Ancestry Registry and – for the first time – there is the birth of my cousin.
Small problem – his birth is registered in the Sep qtr in 1944. Uncle Jim died in Dec 1942.
Do I take it that this was an over length pregnancy, or would it possibly be the reason why I have never heard from him??
My “cousin” had married so surely he would have needed his birth certificate and would have known who his father was – if Jim wasn’t his father why didn’t Charles say so?
Any bright ideas, thoughts etc (apart from sending for the birth certificate which I am thinking of doing) would be appreciated!
(Names have been changed to protect the living although only one is still alive)
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