Some time ago a gentleman contacted me to ask if I could explain why his gt gdma Rosie and her brother had a different surname from their mother in census - had the mother been married twice?
I explained she hadn't - the children were illegitimate, there was another sibling with the grandparents and a first baby who had only lived for a few days, so that made four illegitimate children in all.
His response was "oh dear - mother won't like that. I shall have to think of something to tell her!"
A bit later he sent me updated info on Rosie, her marriage and her children - he knew the info was "right" because Rosie's second child was his own grandfather.
I've only recently got around to dealing with Rosie as she's a distant twig. She allegedly married in 1889 and her first child was born in 1890. I found the family in 1891 census, Mum, Dad, and baby aged 6 months. However, I couldn't find baby's birth reg at all.
As you've probably guessed, I eventually found it in Dec qtr 1890, but under Rosie's maiden surname, not her husband's and the marriage was registered in the same quarter. But baby must have come first!
Why would you want to whitewash your tree like that, about something that happened over a hundred years ago? Or is it simply because "mother" didn't like it and wasn't having "any of that" on her tree?
If he delves any deeper into this extended family "mother" will not have to be told ANYTHING of his researches - four children before marriage was not a one off case!
I explained she hadn't - the children were illegitimate, there was another sibling with the grandparents and a first baby who had only lived for a few days, so that made four illegitimate children in all.
His response was "oh dear - mother won't like that. I shall have to think of something to tell her!"
A bit later he sent me updated info on Rosie, her marriage and her children - he knew the info was "right" because Rosie's second child was his own grandfather.
I've only recently got around to dealing with Rosie as she's a distant twig. She allegedly married in 1889 and her first child was born in 1890. I found the family in 1891 census, Mum, Dad, and baby aged 6 months. However, I couldn't find baby's birth reg at all.
As you've probably guessed, I eventually found it in Dec qtr 1890, but under Rosie's maiden surname, not her husband's and the marriage was registered in the same quarter. But baby must have come first!
Why would you want to whitewash your tree like that, about something that happened over a hundred years ago? Or is it simply because "mother" didn't like it and wasn't having "any of that" on her tree?
If he delves any deeper into this extended family "mother" will not have to be told ANYTHING of his researches - four children before marriage was not a one off case!
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