Hi
I have found someone who I believe to be a half first cousin, and sent a message on facebook. Not saying much just asking if they were related to X and would they be willing to talk to me. This person is also friends on FB with the person i believe is my half uncle.
I don't know if they have read the message as I believe you can view messages without the other person knowing, and just looking at his profile I'm not sure he has even posted anything for a while.
I have also found him on LinkedIn but I don't want to look like a stalker or bother someone who isn't interested in making a connection.
I did also write to the half uncle but again I don't want to bother him on FB if he isn't interested.
Is there anything I can/should do without seeming pushy?
I have found someone who I believe to be a half first cousin, and sent a message on facebook. Not saying much just asking if they were related to X and would they be willing to talk to me. This person is also friends on FB with the person i believe is my half uncle.
I don't know if they have read the message as I believe you can view messages without the other person knowing, and just looking at his profile I'm not sure he has even posted anything for a while.
I have also found him on LinkedIn but I don't want to look like a stalker or bother someone who isn't interested in making a connection.
I did also write to the half uncle but again I don't want to bother him on FB if he isn't interested.
Is there anything I can/should do without seeming pushy?
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