It's quite a story Maggie - I had better e-mail you. Especially as murder is your hobby
Just briefly about the children though (until I get time to e-mail you the full story) - she had 5 children, 3 with her husband and two later with Ronald Joseph Sullivan, who I don't believe she married. Though on their birth certs (which I have copies of) she states father Joseph (no Ronald) and gives her name as Sullivan. My aunt married her brother - hence my interest, and my contact (who I am trying to help) is a descendant of her husband.